Raising a child with significant needs has taught me incredible life lessons. It has given me a greater perspective on life. It has taught me the importance of grace and forgiveness. And it has taught me that life is hard no matter what you’re given. We all have something we are dealing with, whether it is on display or hidden away. But the one thing that none of us are allowed to do is judge. Judge one another’s pain. Decide who has more. And decide how each other should feel.  There isn’t a scoreboard that coincides with how you are allowed to feel. There isn’t a rating for the hurts…